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It is hilarious tho.
First: Of course the biggest tag in the tag cloud is “femmephobia”. Color me surprised.
Second: Can someone please explain to me what part of gay sex is “straight-acting”? Do you really care if somebody flames like Lady Liberty’s torch if the sex is great? Newsflash: nobody’s squishy nerve-filled bits have ever been like, “This feels great, but… ew, he’s got highlights and nail polish? Sorry, but this BJ’s over!” NEVER IN THE HISTORY OF LIFE HAS THIS HAPPENED.
Third: Show me a jock who needs to make a long arbitrary-ass list of “don’ts” (as opposed to legit don’ts like, say, “no people opposed to rimming”) in order to justify his good-good, and I’ll show you somebody who can’t fuck. It’s like setting up a velvet rope for a janitor’s closet, just because the closet door looks kind of cute - ain’t nobody lining up for your so-called exclusive bullshit.
Fourth: Fuck Grindr. Fuck A4A. Fuck AdultFriendFinder. Fuck OKCupid. Fuck Match, Plentyoffish, and the rest of them. Beat off vigorously and hug your friends hard until the universe manifests respectful people who know how to fuck you properly. [This is my motivational mantra for people who have had enough of personals telling them who the fuck they’re supposed to be in order to get their junk touched.]
This is why I love you Ju. And this is why so many of us queer femme boys feel such a disconnect with what is supposed to be our community. Though I do enjoy grindr for the absolute ridiculousness (it can be a fun game to play with the boo).
