driftless in the city.

femmesandfamily:

At least not in most people’s definitions.

Not because I believe in captialism or assimillation.  But because I don’t have the privilege to be able to reject these systems and still survive.

Most of the ‘radical’ queers I know don’t work (or work for very little/radical orgs).  Most of them I know have college educations that were paid for by their parents.  Most of them I know police who is and who isn’t radical with no regard to privilege and power.

All very not radical ideas, if you ask me.

So I am very uncomfortable defining myself in that way.  Maybe it is just my experience that lends myself to not IDing this way.

Has anyone felt similarly? Or want to say what being a radical queer means to them?

I identify as a radical queer exactly because of the ridiculousness I’ve felt from some radical queer communities.  I want to counteract the unchecked privilege and power and challenge the idea that you have to leave the system to be a true radical queer.  I’ve been privileged to have jobs I love, though most are not especially “radical” in nature (all non-profits, but none with strong critiques of capitalism for sure considering some have worked with the likes of Goldman Sachs).  

I’m so over radical communities that are not committed to building true alternatives to the systems that oppress us but instead just protest and tell people to leave the system.  

I’m committed to building safe space for queer and trans* people in the food justice movement, especially around sustainable agriculture which is why I get the fun job of working with farmers in the city greenmarkets as my authentic queer self and challenging them whenever they say or do oppressive shit (of any kind: even if you love my lil gay self, if you say some racist shit I’m gonna call you out).

I have a college education paid in small part by my parents which afforded me the ability to hold the paid work I enjoy, but I do still have a mountain of school debt so I ain’t working for free.

Being a radical queer means practicing radical inclusion.  That means you don’t shut out someone or something because it doesn’t live up to your expectations.  Work with what you got or you aren’t going anywhere.

Oh, and radical queer communities have GOT to stop with the crazy white privilege and racism.  It drives me nuts and makes those spaces completely unsafe for a large percentage of people I love in my life (and makes NYC seem like the only place in the US where you can find radical queer POC spaces).